Do your families do something during the holidays to remember your loved one? If not, what would the ideal be? What would you say to them if you could?
For me, I would tell them that I want Blaine remembered. I want an ornament on their tree. I want them to light a candle. I want them to not be afraid to mention him. It's that simple. Just remember that he was here. And that he mattered.
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No, not really. The first year my aunts got me a blanket with her name and bday embroidered on it and that was so nice to receive but since then I haven't gotten any reminders.
I would want her name spoken and maybe even a candle lit to remember her.
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