Do your families do something during the holidays to remember your loved one? If not, what would the ideal be? What would you say to them if you could?
For me, I would tell them that I want Blaine remembered. I want an ornament on their tree. I want them to light a candle. I want them to not be afraid to mention him. It's that simple. Just remember that he was here. And that he mattered.
No, not really. The first year my aunts got me a blanket with her name and bday embroidered on it and that was so nice to receive but since then I haven't gotten any reminders.
ReplyDeleteI would want her name spoken and maybe even a candle lit to remember her.